Sunday, January 22, 2017

a year bald (Dec.16-20)

So picking up on December (16-20) for the second/third vlog installment of that month.
We went to Las Vegas, Nevada to cover the Play4Kay charity event atT-Mobile Arena and stayed at the New York, New York. As Travel commenced at the Airport in Louisville (Louisville International Airport); we began by getting our luggage checked and boarding passes.

I had one bag that I had intended as my carry on; it was too big and I had forgotten about the personal item option (which can be a backpack). So I removed the empty backpack from the bag I had and stuffed it full; leaving the additional bag less than half full. In addition, I ended up kicking it into the metal measuring unit they use for conforming your bags (honestly the damn thing is really small altogether; they use those standards to encourage you to spend more money just checking your bag in with them for under plane stowage. I don't trust that option much anymore).

So after kicking my bag to conform to their tiny standards and it being approved. I go through the security check (to liquids, gels and aerosol); good-bye coffee, heads have gel, body spray, toothpaste. Because I forgot about their requirement to only bring piss sample size bathroom utilities or risk a good latex-probing if you give them lip. I do love the TSA. Sometimes I feel like they purposely agitate people because they've developed a sick sense of humor and want to see someone go apeshit and get tased, tackled, and probed in a cold sterile room.

I also happen to lose my toothbrush on the way out of Vegas's Airport TSA because it was too sharp; and when I mentioned that the pen in my pocket was more likely to be a weapon, the Officer didn't really seem to mind the pen (has he not seen any prison movies? Pen's are like ShankMaster Gold).

Beyond my experiences in the Airports however, the trip itself was pretty decent minus the cramped space you get shuffled into for about 4-5 hours. I happen to meet a guy named Dave who sat right next to me on the plane; whom I then got to interview, while the gentleman on the end seat wanted nothing to do with me (I love you too, ya beatnik).

We had a good 20minute discussion about Dave being a traveling rep for a company and not having been home in about 3 months; so he was eager to get back and spend the Winter Season with his wife in Vegas. My short adventure, however was only beginning.

I would proceed to attempt shaving with Hotel shower gel and conditioner- in spite of the TSA's theft of my bathroom utilities. This didn't work out. It was awkward. And I would end up traveling up the Strip to an overpriced CVS to get a tiny sample size of Barbasol for $5 and toothpaste sample size for $3. These items would end up working a lot better than attempting to use anything from the hotel; they should, I paid for them.
On the way back we stopped at a Strip-Mall Casino, looked about the shops, the local fashion and a couple eateries. Way to Expensive for young budgeted travelers. Even the propositioning from local Tier-One talent was out of range (not that it was relevant; but it's interesting to check the local prices of comfort foods). I did however play a Penny-Slot for the novelty of the Casino Experience; it was short lived having only invested a dollar- to see how the machine worked. Comical Disappointment ensued and I learned how quickly you can lose money in a Vegas Casino (slot-machine).

I returned to the hotel to finish shave #15 shortly after.

The following day I got up early to mozy around the area about the hotel vicinity; there's a lot to see in Vegas for a first timer who had no plans. I suppose that's where Lego Man comes into play, the Brewhaus experience I just cut out entirely, random tourists activities - though I added in the ice skating rink outside the T-Mobile Arena.

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The last night in Vegas was pretty decent; I lost a little bit more at the Casino - no biggie.
The idea is not to take any more with you than you are prepared to lose; I had more beer with me than cash in my pocket.
So because I enjoy interacting with strangers and don't mind helping folks with general stuff; I was donated a box of beer by someone who had a truckload of it for a larger party. Funny thing was that I was leaving Vegas early the next morning and I wasn't in a huge party mood myself.
I took the beer down to the casino and tried to give it away; most people thought it was a scam...Imagine That...

Though I did perch myself in a spot and handed it out to a few people (still reluctant because people aren't used to charity; especially in a place designed to shake you of all those loose wages you bust your ass for). But I had pretty solid conversations with all sorts of people; I wasn't allowed to have my camera out in the Casino though - Policy. I tried a couple times and upon threats of being kicked out (of the very hotel I was staying at; I made my decision to stay in the warm, sleazy, drunkin, gamblin atmosphere), thus I put my camera away.

We left early the next morning, I can't remember much specifically. Just losing my toothbrush, giving away a bunch of gatorades and just being ready to GTFO of Vegas.

I returned home just in time to go to a Christmas Eve party with the family.
It's always interesting to see how people have changed over the course of our annual meetings; the only way I'm normally able to keep up with people is to showcase my life in progress. Otherwise I might miss out on some form of face-to-face.

Again, just enjoying the family without too much video recording; it was fun as a kid because it wasn't what I did on a general basis for a living - home video ideology changes as you grow up. Especially if you work with technology everyday for a living.

I got to visit my Grandpa and gauge his reaction to my baldness; he was giddy about it because he always though he would be the first, and he's 93 with just a thinning hairline.

We celebrated the oncoming 2017 at our friends place; the Holidays have become so booze filled and I'm not the hardy-partier I once was. I've found myself susceptible to heartburn when I drink rums and whiskeys lately; really not a fun experience if you've never had heartburn. Drink water/milk to eliminate this issue.

So, without giving away too much else; watch the video.








Friday, January 20, 2017

ShopTalk 12 (The Value of Failure)

In addition to: Being Bald and trying to document life + arrange new opportunities. 
I still produce ShopTalk when I'm able. This recent ShopTalk is centered around the concept of Failures (owning failure and the value of failure); there is quite a significant benefit to having failed at things. And I've failed at quite a bit. Not gaining traction with ideas or having them shot down and sending you back to square one, is also a form of failure.

Failure doesn't always have to mean bankruptcy or things breaking. Simply not achieving a set goal or meeting expectations is also a form of failure.

In this latest ShopTalk, ironically - my camera stopped recording part way through on my first attempt to shoot it. Honestly though, the 2nd take was better. I got to take a look at the lighting, scene and just my overall address in general. I originally shot it inside and there was a ton of background noise, I didn't use an additional audio recording device and I wasn't pleased with the angle. And though on my 2nd attempt I sat outside on the only chilly day all week, I held a firmer conviction to get it done right versus suffice with an OK Final Product. My overall goal is to get better at producing these talks so they can be used as a reference. I was inspired by: Adam h Michaels (Facebook) and also enjoy Chase Jarvis (Facebook)

In this latest discussion, I go over the Value of Failure. Why it's beneficial to fail and learn from your failure versus being consumed by it. Paying Attention to your surroundings. Putting in the Grind and Hustle to get what you Want. Not settling, but expanding upon your goals. And I pull references from; David Green: CEO, Hobby Lobby (More than a Hobby). Gary Vaynerchuk: CEO Vaynermedia (#ASKGARYVEE). 
Janet Holloway; Leadership Coach: Women Leading Kentucky (A Willful Child). 
In addition to talking about the 16th President Abraham Lincoln.



Friday, January 13, 2017

2017 - a year bald (December 1)

The first two weeks of the New Year have been a roller coaster of stressing factors for myself and to be 100% honest I wasn't entirely sure where to hold my Focus. Independent Projects, Client work bouncing around, maritime interests growing, community involvement branching out, opportunities popping up, people in varying levels of response to me and trying to manage bills, lend + borrow money and on top of it all just grow as both an individual and a business.

However, when I just took just a few minutes out multiple times in a day I started to find my Focus again. I got to work with catching up on all the loose Vlog material I'd collected during December and I plan to release that in 4 posts. Additionally, I cut a chunk of the overall material out because it wasn't relevant to the stories I'm looking to tell or showcase.

Vlogging has become a unique new task for me; I know it's not mandatory that I do it. But I'm stubborn and I don't enjoy quitting. I've come to schedule an allotted time to do it on a daily basis or re-schedule it if I'm busy.

As well, being bald hasn't changed me too much in the first 3 months. Yeah, the first quarter (of the project) is already up. And over the Holiday season, I devoted 2 straight weeks toward my Parkour 4 Everyone Documentary, soon to be released once I get final feedback from everyone involved in helping me produce it. 
I'll include a Teaser (Parkour 4 Everyone) to that below within Dec. 8-15 Vlog.

•I actually had a nightmare recently that my hair wasn't going to grow back. Then the week following, a dream that I couldn't shave it ever again; it just wouldn't shave. 
So clearly from a psychological perspective I'm internally conflicted about the presence of my hair; as well, I've started to really despise hair restoration product commercials and ads. 
They don't really have any juxtaposition in my life or biology currently, but living without hair on purpose has really placed me on-edge with the existence of these products; which are designed to find a temporary cure (Confidence Booster) for an issue - that is just playing the role of an Emotional Hi-jacking by the Cosmetics Marketing Industry.

                                                                     (Vlog Dec.8-15)

Vlog Times:
I was looking for new opportunities online around Mid-September/ Early October while digging around on Indeed, Monster, Career Builder (I really enjoy keeping my options available or working travel-prone fields), I applied to be a Wine-Ambassador. Seriously didn't think I stood a chance in hell of achieving this; I can look over at my Old 502 Winery hat reflectively now.

It took about a month before I heard back from them after the initial interview because of internal position changes; I emailed them back and then called because I was still interested to hear the results of my interview. BOOM! The interviewer enjoyed my personality and spunk (What's ironic is that I nearly passed up on the interview because I went to the wrong place twice and I figured that by the time I would arrive on location - the interviewer would have traveled back their main office).

So now, I've begun to represent Old 502 Winery. Which for myself, being a closet-wino in a Bluegrass Community has been one of the sweetest things I could have on my plate. Besides making one of my maritime projects a full-time gig.
a year bald, ShopTalk, Proofed Cuisine, Brewmergency, Basil Patek's (in the works): pick one, I enjoy doing a ton of things and I just recently started doing Parkour because I don't enjoy gyms; traditional gyms are boring honestly, I enjoy the Urban Gym (The World in our Playground).

So fast forward to Louisville, I meet with the Assistant Director, take the tour, get the rundown of the wine, behind the scenes, expectations, flavor profiles and later that same day I'm an Ambassador; I talk wine, I sample product, I talk to people and have a good time. Wine brings out the fun in people. And there I was having a blast in a corner liquor store in Eastern Louisville.

Later that same evening after I pack up, I headed over to the Southwest Center to meet up with my buddies from Kentuckiana Parkour, whom I'd only met 6 months prior and shot a documentary with back in May-June out in Washington (prior to this trip, I'd met with them once or twice and talked to them online a bit). I'm really just a people person and I fuckin' love adventure.

While at the Parkour Gym for 3 hours; by the way, keep track of time - Parkour is fun, but it's also a full body exercise. The time slips away and then in the morning your body hurts. For myself, as I've not built up that sort of stamina yet, I was sore to say the least.

A couple of days later I'm back in the Richmond/Lexington area and I have plans to go shoot the final scenes for a Short Film I've been working on (LIVE from Baghdad) + a Promotional piece for a Church (I can use the same drone footage: Great!). But life can't be that easy on Steve. No.
Shortly after the drone goes up, it malfunctions (keep in mind I updated the software just the night before and turned it on to test it out: All Good), I have two functions I can do once the malfunction hits - Down and Right. So in lieu of hitting a crowd of people, I send it toward the Ghetto of town. And besides a rough landing and a re-calibration that gets cut short because some guy ran over to turn it off and take it...The rest of the day was pretty smooth minus the 3 hours of stress, driving through the ghetto looking for a clue. 
Here's a clue, get drone insurance.

Two days later one of my Beard Club Brothers passes away and later that afternoon I receive an award for being an asset to the community.

How am I feeling right now. Mixed.

The following morning I decided to shoot a different style ad for 3Gins Media for the coming season; I tend to have a pretty solid client-to-colleague conversion rating. Again, I care about the people in my network; people are a greater asset than constantly focusing on a paycheck. I've thought this way since I started my own business on the premise that I hated the previous leadership in the jobs I had worked and bet I could do it better given the opportunity. I was right. And I learned a lot in the year and a half I've worked for myself. I encourage anyone to start their own business, you'll be surprised at that you'll gain internally as a person. 






In the Vlog however, because of my storytelling style focusing on the not-so-glamorous aspects of my life as I live it - Bald. While in front of the greenscreen I was working on this ad and I got interrupted from above; perfect time for someone to be starting to work on the roof at the new place.

Following up later that afternoon at Kroger where my buddy De'von works; we used to work together about 6-7 years ago at a food court on EKUs campus. Back when I first got ahold of the concept if hating a job so much that you decide to be fuckin' awesome at it. Because you want people to be sad when they see your triumphant ass walk out the door. It happened, and I was proud. Then it was followed by the traveling gig shortly after.

Anyway, De'von is a hardcore poet; he is very deep emotionally and spiritually, the best kind of philosophical voice to have on your side; I used a clip from a project I produced for him because he has been a shoulder to lean on and I wanted to pay that back to him somehow.

And before we wrap on what's going on and what to expect in the next Vlog, which is a (carry on, because I made it work). I got to go to Vegas on a workcation and I have a need to have fun wherever I go, no matter how people around me feel about it. 

I would recommend you give The 4 Hour Work Week a read. I really enjoyed it myself and because I produce ShopTalk on Facebook (#ShopTalkGuys), I'm always sharing my finds across multiple sources in a short talk. I've provided the link to where I got it down below; and if you use the Google Chrome Browser: install Honey to your toolbar. It seeks out the best deals for every online retailer and gives you the option to save. Try it out and let me know your thoughts :P







Solid Deals.